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"Parents based in the northern part of London seeks an extraordinary and qualified tutor to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to turning into an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might readily skip the wording "initial stages" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it might be the most significant element of this distinctive position posting, as it seeks to hire a mentor for a infant.

Many of applications have already been sent in since the anonymous family advertised their call for the highly paid tutor, who has to be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the post has received interest in the media, with several asking why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, chief executive of Tutors International, which is helping the family in their search, explained that in spite of initial scepticism, he found the idea "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he noted they appreciated the unusual nature of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

However, they clarified that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that point "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", Adam answered. "The way you eat, the manner you speak".

He said the elder child had absorbed "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family explained to the consultant they wished to avoid history to happen again with their younger child.

The intention: To bring in a UK tutor, who should speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby from day one.

Osmotic Learning

"A lot of the learning at the beginning here is kind of absorbed naturally," stated the expert.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will pick up the English characteristics they aim to instil.

Adam noted the tutor had to be someone who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor just has to be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he commented.

Money No Object

The family told the expert the selected educator should ideally also have familiarity of or enthusiasm in horse riding, winter sports, creative fields and music so as to influence the child in a wide range of interests.

More than that though, he said the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a range of classes so the child would be "horseback riding and starting an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son become a "English gentleman" will result in accomplishment and open doors.

"Considering the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a social class indicator," he comments.

Yet, in spite of all this instruction in "Britishness", could the child absorb alleged cultural influence from the international family he resides with in any case?

"Yes", replied Adam. "They understand this may not work, but they've simply adopted the view of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as soon as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

A number of in the private teaching field who have similar concerns.

An education leader, head and founder of Blue Education, who supplies individual instructors, wrote that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or actually, becoming oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not manufactured."

The expert noted that he had moved from China to the United Kingdom at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up understanding and living two backgrounds. He went on to learn at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that an individual can function as a representation of Britishness, a person who can possibly transplant the attributes of a UK sophisticate upon a 12-month-old child, strikes me as naive and unrealistic," he commented.

"From my perspective, having a typically English tutor from early childhood will not necessarily produce the outcome they desire.

"I never had such a tutor, and yet I have been fortunate enough to live several of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He added: "The fact is, personal identity can not be dictated from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, UK identity is something the CEO thinks can be taught – and commercialized.

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